“Life itself is so complicated, please be a little kinder to yourself. Don't create ideals. Life brings enough problems; but these problems can be solved. If you are on the wrong train, you can change the train; tickets can be redeemed if lost; If your wife has run away, you can find another woman. The problems that life brings to you can be solved; but the problems that idealism will bring you can never be solved; they are impossible.” Osho